Real estate agent referrals can be a great source for leads in a property management business, but this strategy is often challenging and confusing for property management entrepreneurs.
Join property management experts Jason Hull and Sarah Hull as they dive into the world of real estate agent referrals and why they often don’t work for property management entrepreneurs. Learn how to shift the focus from seeking referrals to creating impactful introductions that connect you with the right clients.
You’ll Learn About Investor Referrals
[02:24] The Problems with Trying to Get Referrals from Realtors
[05:39] How to be Memorable to Your Clients
[10:31] How Going Deeper can Land You More Deals
[15:24] Challenges with Asking for Referrals
[17:44] Donât Make Realtors Sell for You + Building Confidence
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“We have maybe three or four different bodies or parts of ourselves. We have our intuitive, we have our mental, we have our emotional, and we have our physical.”
“What I found was they’ll have a logical mental memory of something, but a logical mental memory of something alone doesn’t really stay there unless there’s emotion connected to it.”
“If they’re not excited or feel something, why would they be motivated to give you referrals or even remember you or think about you?”
“Depth is where the magic happens.”
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[00:00:00] Jason: They wake up every morning wanting something and itâs not property management and itâs not like helping their clients with property management that is not at the forefront of their mind, their heart and their desires. What do they want? They want money. They want more real estate deals.
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[00:00:59] We want to transform the industry, eliminate the BS, build awareness, change perception, expand the market, and help the best property management entrepreneurs win. Iâm your host, property management growth expert Jason Hull, the founder and CEO of DoorGrow, along with Sarah Hull, the co owner and COO of DoorGrow. Now letâs get into the show.
[00:01:20] My iPad dinged. I didnât turn on do not disturb when it started. I need myâ I have to have a pre flight checklist like right there. Like I got to do it. So, itâs on do not disturb now. By the way, I was talking with a client this week. And he said that he had some of my videos playing in the background and he forgot and he came back into the room and he heard this voice talking, and heâs like, âwhy is Ed Norton talking in my office?â You know who Ed Norton is?
[00:01:55] Sarah: No.
[00:01:56] Jason: All right for those of you listening, you probably know heâs an actor, very famous actor, but apparently I might sound like Ed Norton, so I donât know.
[00:02:05] Sarah: Iâm one of those people, donât ask me like, âoh do you know like this?â Donât name drop with me, I donât know who they are.
[00:02:10] Jason: She doesnât care.
[00:02:12] Sarah: I donât, especially if itâs like a celebrity, now I really donât know.
[00:02:16] Jason: Yeah, sheâs like, theyâre not paying me.
[00:02:19] Sarah: I have no idea who they are.
[00:02:20] Jason: Okay.
[00:02:20] Sarah: I donât know. Alright. I can maybe name like five celebrities.
[00:02:24] Jason: So our topic is, and we had a question asked about this in our Facebook group in the DoorGrow Club. So if youâre interested in what I told him and the coaching thatâ I created a video and I put it into there, go check it out You can go to doorgrowclub.Com. But the topic wasâ He was basically frustrated about getting agent referrals. Like how do you make this work? So a lot of property managers think a great lead source would be getting referrals from real estate agents, but we found that it doesnât work very well if youâre asking for referrals. And so I wanted to talk about why real estate agent referrals in property management donât work. And maybe if you can understand why it doesnât work, you might be interested in reaching out to DoorGrow and learning how we make this work really well. So what typically happens with people that go out and they think âIâm going to go get some real estate agents to give me referrals âcause they might know some investors.â
[00:03:23] Sarah: Yeah. And I did it too. So like, Iâm guilty as charged, but it was like, âHey, so if you ever know anybody who needs property management, then just like, let me know, like, hereâs my card, hereâs my information. Like, just give me a call.â
[00:03:36] Jason: Yeah.
[00:03:36] Sarah: â Keep me in mind.â It doesnât work.
[00:03:39] Jason: Or theyâll go and like, âHey, could I present to your office about property management?â and so theyâll go do to the real estate office. They have their morning meeting, you know, in their office maybe once a week and they go present and they sit there and they pitch and talk about property management and how theyâre so good and all this stuff. And then at the end, theyâre sitting there insecure, wondering like, âWhy was everybody just eating donuts and looking at their phone the whole time?â you know, and ânobodyâs coming up to me.â And maybe one person says, âHey, nice presentation,â you know, and then you walk away with nothing, and they donât really care about you, right? So, why doesnât this work? Because a lot of people try this. Why arenât they getting tons of referrals from real estate agents?
[00:04:22] Sarah: Well, thereâs a lot of different reasons. I think one of the big ones is weâre just relying on people to remember you like âoh, hey if you need, you know If you come across somebody who needs property management, then you have to just remember that I do it and then hopefully You know, pass it on over to me.â and theyâre not going to remember you unless thereâs a really good reason to there, especially if they donât see like a benefit in it for them. So if youâre like, Oh yeah, who paints houses? Itâs like, now I have to go find people that paint houses. But very rarely do we have like this Rolodex in our head of, you know, people who do certain things. We do have connections to people who do things that we refer out to a lot. So for example, in real estate, you might know somebody that paints houses. You might know somebody that cleans. You might do, you know, know someone who does some like handyman work. Because if youâve got a client whoâs buying a house and theyâre like, yeah, but I hate the color. Itâs like, âoh, donât worry. Iâll just send you to John and heâll paint the whole thing for you, right?â But property management is a little bit different unless youâre working with a lot of investors, then you probably just donât need to have a property manager, like in your Rolodex. So thatâs one of the first reasons why it doesnât work.
[00:05:39] Jason: Okay. So, I like what you said about it not being memorable. So Iâll talk about memory real quick. So we have, you could say that we have maybe three or four different bodies or parts of ourselves. We have our intuitive, we have our mental, we have our emotional, and we have our physical right? And I used to do, you know, some emotional processing work with people like I would help them work through emotional stuff. And what I found was theyâll have a logical mental memory of something, but a logical mental memory of something alone doesnât, they donât retain it, or it doesnât really stay there unless thereâs emotion connected to it. And so. The example I like to share with people is I just asked him, what were you doing on the day of 9 11? And what was the weather like? And they can usually remember quite a bit in detail, even though it was quite long ago. And I say, what was the day like 2 days before? And theyâre like, âI have no idea,â right? Because thereâs no emotion. Maybe if they were hypnotized, their logical brain could go, âyeah, I could, I remember this,â but we donât really retain things well, if there is an emotion connected to it. So thatâs one of the reasons why they donât, they didnât feel anything in you talking to them. They donât, theyâre not excited. If theyâre not excited or feel something, why would they be motivated to give you referrals or even remember you or think about you? So the anchor that weâve created with them isâ And anchoring is a neurolinguistic programming tactic. You can do this very strategically and effectively. You can create anchors. You also can create emotional states in people by the way that you communicate and maybe even listen to this. Youâre like getting a little bit excited. Youâre feeling a little bit excited about getting agent referrals, but you still donât know how it works, right? So what I did is I just created a state in you just a little bit. All right. So, the reason I think agent referrals donât work is because real estate agents donât care about you and your business.
[00:07:39] Sarah: The other reason they donât care: why would they donât care about what somebody else is doing? Theyâre not, you know walking around going. âOh, how can I help you today? How can I help you today? And how can I help you?â Theyâre like, âwhat am I doing? Like, whatâs on my plate today? What do I have to do?â And the sooner we realize, like, hey, people are just in their own little bubble. Like, theyâre worried about what is right in front of them. And like, what are the tasks that they have to focus on? And whatâs going on in their life? And what are they thinking? What are they feeling? Theyâre not very often stepping outside of that to go like, âOh what is he feeling today? And what is she feeling today? You know, what are you dealing with?â People are very concerned with, you know, what theyâve got going on and thatâs just, thatâs normal. So we need to kind of just understand that and then figure out, âwell, okay, if thatâs the mindset and the headspace that people are in knowing that, what do we do differently?
[00:08:36] Jason: Yeah, I think we need to figure out like, what do they actually want?â They wake up every morning wanting something and itâs not property management and itâs not like helping their clients with property management that is not at the forefront of their mind, their heart and their desires. What do they want? They want money. They want more real estate deals. And so you have got to connect them getting more real estate deals to them connecting you to their investor clients. Youâve got to figure out how to make that connection. So we have this very well scripted out. We have our clients that are, letâs talk about some results. Like some of our clients, one of our clients, one of our best success stories this year in less than a year has added 400 doors in less than a year without really focusing on paid advertising really at all, right? Contrast that. So theyâve broken the thousand door barrier. Another client came to us and they have I think 1300, 1700 doors and their BDM bought 322 leads from a lead service, like, Iâll just say APM. They bought it from APM and they closed 18. They closed 18 in the last year of those. They got 18 doors in the last year. If you calculate what each of those probably costs and they have a full time BDM that theyâre paying to work this, they have a setter that theyâre paying.
[00:09:56] Like this is expensive with the per deal acquisition costs must be ridiculous. If they spent all of that time and all of that money and all. You know, follow up and everything else doing the strategies that we teach a DoorGrow, they probably could have, they mightâve been able to double their portfolio over the last several years. Theyâre just churning and burning through all this energy, time, focus, cash and effort. Like, itâs super wasteful. So, one of our clients added 310 doors just using this strategy in a year from only five or six agents. So a couple of things, the reasons that agent referrals donât work, weâve established, they donât care about you, they care about getting more deals. Youâve got to connect that you arenât making them feel something. They want to feel excited. They feel excited about getting more deals. Youâre creating a weak anchor. Other ways in which this isnât working is that. Youâre not really getting to know them well enough. Thereâs not enough depth in the relationship or a connection. Theyâre not going to connect you to somebody unless they feel really safe with you and they like you. And so a lot of people are trying to do this so superficially, like âletâs go pitch to a whole group and maybe Iâll magically get a bunch of leads that come in from them.â Thereâs no depth there.
[00:11:14] Thereâs a lot of width, right? Youâre hitting a lot of people, but depth is where the magic happens. This is probably the greatest secret I think that we teach in helping people grow and add doors rapidly is we just get them doing depth in a way that none of their competitors are doing it. Going deeper. That means more personal, more intimate, more one on one, like focusing on like in person or video, whateverâs the deepest things that you can do, youâre going to grow faster. So I think thereâs also a lack of depth is a challenge. I think also with why agent referrals donât work is because nobody comes up to them and says they need property management. This almost never happens. And if it doesâ
[00:12:01] Sarah: If they do, theyâre not the ones you want to take on.
[00:12:03] Jason: Right.
[00:12:03] Sarah: Like, âHey, I desperately need a property manager. Please help me. Like, I donât want that.
[00:12:08] Jason: Yeah.
[00:12:09] Sarah: I want somebody whoâs we know without even asking any further questions, this is not going to be a great property to take on.
[00:12:15] Jason: Yeah. Their hair has to be on fire or that like to call their agent up and say, âHey, this rental property, itâs a nightmare for me. I have this huge problem. Iâve got an eviction. I need to get done. Itâs a meth house. Like they, they burned down the back porch. Like itâs leaking. Like they, like, they wonât let us in. Theyâve got a pit bull, right? Whatever, right? Itâs a nightmare.â And for you to take it on, you would, it would probablyâ
[00:12:42] Sarah: Theyâre breeding dogs and the tenants were addicted to drugs. Oneâs in rehab. One just died. Now we have I think there was like 12 dogs in the house. There were puppies. We had to do like a puppy rescue.
[00:12:54] Jason: Oh gosh.
[00:12:55] Sarah: Weâve seen it all. Super fun as a property manager.
[00:12:58] Jason: Yeah. The things you property managers have seen, right?
[00:13:00] Sarah: Itâs like, âoh, hey, you know what? Jason does property management. Let me call Jason.â And Jason was like, âI donât want that.â Iâm like, âwhy? No. Like, thanks for thinking of me, I guess.â And now, that almost, like, shoots you in the foot even worse, because now itâs like, âhey, well, now I have something to give you, and I gave it to you, and you donât even want it?â
[00:13:19] Jason: Right.
[00:13:19] Sarah: So now weâre like taking what could be a good relationship and kind of saying like, yeah, well, thanks for that lead, but itâs garbage. Yeah. Thanks for giving me the shittiest thing you could possibly find.
[00:13:30] Jason: Yeah. The worst thing you could do is finally get them to give you a referral. Youâve been bugging them over and over again. Theyâre like, âhere, somebody came to me, here you go. And can you help my client out?â And youâre like. â Do I have to? Like, I donât want to change somebody elseâs dirty diaper.â Like you donât want to deal with this. You donât want to deal with this problem.
[00:13:48] Sarah: Right. And itâs probably not gonna be profitable for you. Itâs probably not like if I think if a lot of property managers ran a profit and loss statement, or like a cost analysis on each individual door, which some of those low rent doors would not be profitable for you, right?
[00:14:05] Jason: You should know some of those owners.
[00:14:07] Sarah: These are part of, yeah, these are part of knowing your financials. We have a whole course in here about it, but there are certain data that you should just know in your business, you should know which doors, you know, are profitable, which doors maybe are not so profitable, which clients are and are not profitable. You should know all of that. But if you really start to dig into that, youâre right. Youâre going to see very clearly like, Hey. This one doesnât quite measure up to, you know, what weâre hoping for. But if youâre just waiting for somebody to go, âHey, I need a property manager. Like thatâs what weâre getting. Weâre getting the, âOh my God, I have this like awful situation and now I need somebody like thatâs what weâre waiting to get.â
[00:14:50] Jason: Yeah. I mean to expect that a bunch of people are just going to walk up to a real estate agent and say, âHey, I need a property manager. Who do you got that almost never ever happens. Itâs super rare. Now, some of you have gotten some referrals from agents and it mightâve been some sort of scenario like that. Like they came up to him and said, âHey, they need a property manager,â but itâs probably super rare. So youâre probably not getting, you know, 10, 20, 30 doors a month from this engine. The other challenge why agent referrals donât work is a lot of real estate agents donât even work with investors. Most real estate, 50 percent of real estate agents in the last year, the stat I heard was they didnât even do a single deal.
[00:15:38] Sarah: Oh yeah. Yeah, I was talking with a client, I think yesterday with anyone with them and heâs in the Miami market and like in his like city alone. I think there was something like 60, 000 agents, but out of those 60, 000 agents, like, you know, theyâre not all active and then out of the ones that are active, like, what are the ones that Iâve actually done a deal? What are the ones that actually do multiple deals? And then what are the ones that actually work with investors?
[00:16:04] Jason: The ones that actually work with investors must be a pretty small pool. Like maybe theyâll do a deal occasionally, but how many agents are regularly working with investors? All the time, and they have a Rolodex and a pool of a bunch of investors that they have connections to not very many. So, our client that added 310 doors in a year, he did it from only 5 or 6 real estate agents he told me. That was it, but he said he tried calling a 1000 to find those 5 or 6. So thatâs a lot of deals from very few. He had to kiss a lot of frogs to find a few princesses. Right? Or princes, whatever. So, now, a lot of real estate agents are working with investors. So you need to find the ones that do. So this is another reason why referrals donât work. You go pitch to a office meeting. You might as well just likeâ well, Iâm not going to give away all our strategy, but you might as well just ask, like how many of you work with investors? If no oneâs raising their hand, you might as well just end and say, âcool, if you find anybody, send them our way.â And thatâs my time, right? You donât need to be wasting your time. Another reason referrals in general donât work is that you donât even go to the right audience. So if youâre going to real estate agents that donât have investors, thatâs the wrong audience. Some go even worse than they go to a BNI group where there might be one real estate agent only, or they go to a chamber of commerce, or some sort of networking groups and theyâre like, âHey, everybody, and nobody there really has rental properties. Maybe like, theyâre not even an investor or they donât have connections to investors. And so those kind of things can be a big time, suck or a waste of time when thereâs way more effective strategies. So now, another reason why referrals, agent referrals for property managers donât work is you are, if youâre asking for referrals, which is the wrong thing to actually ask for, youâre expecting them to sell for you. So, the idea of a referral, if we break this down, is somebodyâs going to come up to them. And say, âI have this problem. Theyâre going to say, let me sell you on this idea of getting a property manager and then connect you to somebody.â Youâre expecting them to sell for you. The way our clients are winning this game is weâve set it up so that you get to sell. The client, our client gets to sell, not the real estate agent. So what we teach instead is to focus on getting introductions. So, so that isâ and if you want to learn more about that, we recommend you get into our program because our clients are crushing it. We have scripts for this, all of this. All right. Any other things about this that are not why realtor referrals donât work for most people?
[00:18:48] Sarah: I think that about covers it.
[00:18:50] Jason: I think if I were to add one more thing, it would be a lack of confidence. So a lot of property managers donât go into these situations knowing clearly how to get Referrals to come from them. They donât know how to create these relationships effectively. They donât know the language, the scripting to use. Oh, this is a big one that we missed. Another big reason is theyâre not going to refer to you if your business is a real estate brand. This makes them feel very unsafe. So this is why we rebrand a large percentage of our clients. If your brand has âreal estateâ or ârealty,â or they know that youâre a real estate agent, itâs like all over the tin. They donât want to send people to you because they donât want to lose their clients and theyâre afraid of their clients being stolen by you. And everybody says, âOh, well, Iâll just promise Iâll refer them back,â but their clients might put pressure on you or know that you do real estate. You need to create a scenario in which theyâre going to feel safe connecting clients to you so that you look like property management, not real estate. So those are some of the big ones. So, I think thatâs basically it. I think thatâs pretty comprehensive. So realtor referrals for most people are not working. And if youâd like this to work, what should they do?
[00:20:09] Sarah: Well, you can talk with us. You can book a call. You can check us out online at doorgrow.Com. We also have a free Facebook group and you can check out our Facebook group. Thereâs a lot of information that we have out there available for you guys, but check us out. And if youâre like, âI just donât know.â Thatâs okay. Do some research like where I think our results speak for themselves.
[00:20:33] Jason: Yeah. Nobody has as many case studies as us. We put out 40 testimonials or case study videos in the last year. And these are just captured during our coaching calls. Our clients are crushing it. And nobody is moving forward or innovating as quickly as DoorGrow when it comes to coaching. So join our group coaching mastermind. You can get all the details by going to doorgrow.Com. Thereâs a big pink button on the page say âyou want to grow.â Click on that. Itâll give you the three steps that you need to take in order to potentially work with us. We donât just like work with everybody. We want to work with people that are willing to put in the effort, but weâre actually going to reduce the amount of friction and effort and time that it takes for you to get business on by doing more effective strategies. So reach out to us at DoorGrow. So I think thatâs it. So until next time to our mutual growth, bye everyone.
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