Owning a business of any kind impacts your life and relationships.
In this episode of the #DoorGrowShow, property management growth experts talk about marriage, relationships, and how these things correlate with having a property management business.
You’ll Learn
[02:03] Owning a business impacts your relationships
[07:45] You have to be selfish sometimes
[11:10] Why people pleasing is harmful
[14:13] Masculine and Feminine frames
[24:51] Leveling up in business and your relationships
Tweetables
“In business, you don’t want to be the needy, pleasy guy running a property management business, trying to please every tenant, trying to please every business owner.”
“I think as a business owner, you, there is part of you that has to be selfish and you have to be comfortable with being selfish because there is a time and a place for it.”
“If you do not take care of yourself, you are not going to have energy to then continue to take care of other people.”
“Ironically, the more you are trying to please somebody, the less they value you.”
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Transcript
[00:00:00] Jason: In business, you donāt want to be the needy, pleasy guy running a property management business, trying to please every tenant, trying to please every business owner.
[00:00:08] Welcome DoorGrow property managers to the DoorGrow show. If you are a property management entrepreneur that wants to add doors, make a difference, increase revenue, help others, impact lives, and youāre interested in growing in business and life, and you are open to doing things a bit differently, then you are a DoorGrow property manager.
[00:00:29] DoorGrow property managers love the opportunities, daily variety, unique challenges, and freedom that property management brings many in real estate think youāre crazy for doing it. You think theyāre crazy for not because you realize that property management is the ultimate, high trust gateway to real estate deals, relationships, and residual income. At DoorGrow, we are on a mission to transform property management business owners and their businesses. We want to transform the industry, eliminate the BS. Build awareness, change perception, expand the market, and help the best property management entrepreneurs win. Weāre your hosts property management growth experts, Jason and Sarah Hull the owners of DoorGrow.
[00:01:11] Now Letās get into the show.
[00:01:14] All right, so todayās topic, weāre going to chat a little bit about marriage. So letās talk about it. Weāre going to tell a little bit about marriage. Those that have followed my journey over the years have probably seen that Iāve been divorced. Iāve gone through struggles in marriage. Iāve learned things the hard way. Some of yāall probably been married forever like my parents. I have amazing parents and they were a great example of just loving each other from the beginning forever.
[00:01:44] Theyāve been married for, I donāt know, like 50 years or something.
[00:01:48] Sarah: Almost. 49.
[00:01:50] Jason: Yeah. Yeah. I think
[00:01:52] Sarah: this year is going to be 47. So theyāre like going to be 50.
[00:01:55] Jason: I think they got married two years before they had me. So yeah.
[00:01:58] Sarah: They celebrate it though, but theyāre still in Australia.
[00:02:01] Jason: Yeah. So my parents, they just love each other.
[00:02:03] But one of the things that I think itās been coming up a lot, Iāve been noticing a lot of clients as I go deeper with them and they kind of open up especially the guys like relationships are a struggle. Itās a challenge. I think itās difficult. It can be difficult for entrepreneurs. I think itās difficult for the women entrepreneurs because in a lot of ways you have to kind of step into sort of a masculine frame to run a business. And that creates an interesting dynamic in a relationship. And this is in general. Some women out there, maybe you donāt want a masculine guy. Maybe you donāt want a guy that leads. Maybe you donāt want a guy that initiates stuff. Maybe you donāt want to be able to let your hair down after work and like have him kind of take the reins and like plan something and take you on a date. I think a lot of women do. A lot of women appreciate that. Even the ones that are running businesses and showing up in a masculine sort of frame and being kind of dominant in leadership and displaying these things, they would like to have somebody else take the lead. Is this accurate do you think or no?
[00:03:03] Sarah: Yeah, well. You think itās different.
[00:03:05] Jason: Youāve run your own business.
[00:03:06] Youāve been kind of in that frame.
[00:03:08] Sarah: Iām a very masculine woman.
[00:03:11] Jason: Yeah, in some ways I think youāve consistently since weāve been together.
[00:03:15] Sarah: I look very feminine. I do itās deceiving. Yeah.
[00:03:19] Jason: Yeah, I think since weāve been together, youāve consistently stepped more and more into your feminine and Iāve stepped more and more into my masculine I think has kind of been a trend.
[00:03:29] Would you say thatās accurate?
[00:03:30] Sarah: It could be. I donāt know. I think youāve probably more recently been focused on that. I canāt say, I really cannot say, oh, Iāve ever been focused on.
[00:03:41] Jason: I donāt think youāve been focused on it. I just think.
[00:03:44] Sarah: Iām just living life.
[00:03:45] Jason: Yeah, youāre just living life and this is the thing.
[00:03:48] Sarah: Iām just going about shit, doing my thing.
[00:03:50] Jason: Sheās not as conscious of it probably because I think this is something that men, if you are the leader and leading, you should be conscious of this. And women, when men are kind of taking that leadership role, women respond to that, and itās natural. Like, Iāve noticed it in Sarah, sheās not even probably super aware of it, but thereās behaviors and things that have kind of shifted.
[00:04:15] And so, the way itāll show up for a woman in this, in a relationship like that, as a man stepping more into leadership and into his masculine role, she will generally, over time, feel calmer. Thereāll be probably less fights, probably less explosions, you know, things like this. And the guy will be like letting go of some of the needy, whiny, pleasy, weak behavior thatās kind of gross to women.
[00:04:39] Does this sound accurate?
[00:04:40] Sarah: That is, yeah, that is gross.
[00:04:42] Jason: Yeah.
[00:04:42] Sarah: To me, anyway, I cannot speak for all women.
[00:04:45] Jason: Yeah.
[00:04:45] Sarah: To me, itās gross.
[00:04:47] Jason: Ironically, when women are showing up kind of more in a masculine frame, they sometimes bring that out in guys. Like the guys think, Oh no, thereās a problem. I got to please more.
[00:04:57] And so it kind of creates this weird, gross spiral in relationship. And so, which Iāve experienced in past relationships. Right. And so the man needs to kind of. shift and lead out of that. And so Iāve been noticing this in clients. And so, this is something that Iāve been paying a lot of attention to.
[00:05:14] A lot of guys show up in a feminine frame because weāve been raised by our moms. Maybe you had a loving mom. She took care of you. Maybe she didnāt. And she wasnāt really a great mom, maybe but either way, that feminine influence towards pleasing has a strong impact on the male psyche, which puts us into kind of a growing up with kind of a feminine frame. If we donāt have a really strong sort of masculine walled stoic father, you know, and thereās really great book I would recommend for men that want to kind of eliminate that feminine frame that theyāre carrying around.
[00:05:49] Itās called shattering the feminine frame by Jerr, J E R R. Itās really hard to find, so you may have to search for it on Google, because if you search for it on Amazon, even though itās there, Amazon wonāt let you see it. I donāt know why. Itās super weird. You may not be able to find it. Sometimes searches on some of the books by Jerr donāt show up when I search for them.
[00:06:11] His main book that he puts out there, I can find, and then I have to go to the author, click on the author name, and then find his other books to find some of these books. I donāt, itās really weird, but you might be able to find it through Google.
[00:06:23] Sarah: Maybe itās just you. It could be just you. Itād be an interesting test.
[00:06:27] Maybe everybody else, even though.
[00:06:30] Jason: I bought multiple copies of the book and sent them to guys. So Jason gets blocked on everything. He gets himself blocked. Iām a little controversial. I get shadow banned all the time. It was something. I was definitely shadow banned on Twitter. My accounts arenāt working, your whole Instagram account.
[00:06:45] I have a political account on Instagram thatās totally blocked and shut down. Like, I log into it, it blocks everything. I canāt do anything. I canāt even go to settings to, like, request help to support. Nothing. So, yeah. So, which probably might be why I canāt find which probably means my ideas are actually correct.
[00:07:04] So since we live in a world of control and censorship nowadays, all right, so that aside, so I think you know, to kill that needy sort of pleasing behavior, I think guys, this is really important. And itās important in business too, because in business, you donāt want to be the needy, pleasy guy running a property management business, trying to please every tenant, trying to please every business owner.
[00:07:30] And that was something you were very good at not doing in your property management
[00:07:34] Sarah: business. I donāt give a shit about that at all. I
[00:07:37] Jason: think youāre like, what do I want my business to look like? How do I want to show? Yeah. Yeah.
[00:07:42] Sarah: Right. And I think itās, It, part of it is very selfish. And I think as a business owner, you, there is part of you that has to be selfish and you have to be comfortable with being selfish because there is a time and a place for it.
[00:07:54] Now I am not sitting here telling you, be only selfish and only think about yourself all the time. No matter what, prioritize you and forget everything else, right? That is not what Iām saying, but there is a time and a place to be selfish and to really think about you. And if you think about it this way, thereās a lot of people, like one of my, one of my very good friends in Pennsylvania she will just give and give and give and give to everybody.
[00:08:21] She worries about her kids and she worries about her friends and she worries about her family and she worries about, itās like, sheās like, so giving and like, I mean, she would literally give you the coat off of her back in the middle of winter if you needed it. I have watched her do it. And that is great.
[00:08:42] However, if you do not take care of yourself, you are not going to have energy to then continue to take care of other people. And I tell her that all the time because sheās just in this constant exhaustion. Like now itās manifesting physically. Now sheās had like, she had health issues. She had like a heart problem.
[00:09:02] She had all kinds of issues and itās because sheās not prioritizing herself. She will go to do something for herself, but then something else pops up and needs her attention. And sheās like, Oh, well, I canāt worry about me. Now, I have to worry about this other thing. So there is a time and a place to be selfish, and you must take care of yourself first in order to then serve and take care of other people.
[00:09:22] Itās like, put on your own oxygen mask before helping other people. Because if you die trying to help your family, well now your family doesnāt have you. When you could have just put on your own oxygen mask first. Yes? So there is a time and a place to be selfish. I think in my later years, especially after my, like, my divorce when I was, what was I, 28?
[00:09:48] Yeah, I was 28. So, 28, I flipped my entire life upside down. All of it. Everything. I pretty much scrapped it all. Anything that wasnāt serving me, anything that was toxic, anything that wasnāt good for me, anything that didnāt make me feel happy or bring me joy or make me feel loved and cared for, I said, fuck it.
[00:10:10] Gone. Gone. So I cut off relationships with my biological father. I ended my marriage. I cut off a lot of friendships. I quit my job. I did all kinds of things. I was like, yeah, this isnāt working like, and that was the end of it. But that was very much about, that was for me. I did that for me.
[00:10:30] And up until that point, I wasnāt really living for me. Yes, I was concerned about myself. I was always trying to take care of myself. But I was also always worried, Oh, well, who needs this? And who needs that? And, oh, you know, this person, you know, is kind of, itās always like in the back of your brain.
[00:10:48] And after, after that, I made that change and that after that point was when I started my business, when I started my business, Iām glad that I didnāt do this before I had that shift in my life because when I started my business, number one has to be me. If the business makes me miserable, then Iām doing something wrong.
[00:11:07] So why do it like that?
[00:11:10] Jason: A lot of people are miserable in their businesses. They like, we see a lot of them. Thatās why a lot of people come to us. We can turn that around. Ironically, the more you are trying to please somebody, the less they value you. And so if youāre like just bending over backwards trying to please tenants, theyāre going to treat you even more and more like garbage because youāre showcasing and demonstrating in your language your behavior everything, āIām low value.ā
[00:11:37] Iām a doormat. Walk all over me. You might do that with owners. You might be displaying, Hey, Iām low value. Iām available whenever you need me. Your time is so much more important than my time. Interrupt me anytime. Hereās my cell phone number. Right? And so by displaying that youāre low value, you actually end up being treated worse and being perceived as worse.
[00:11:58] And people respect business owners that are leaders and then are able to display strong behavior that they can lean into and that they can trust. You need to have a stronger frame or a more masculine frame if you are the leader of a business. Otherwise, people are not going to really trust, respect, or feel safe with you.
[00:12:18] And so I think that Also, when weāre in relationship and weāre with somebody and I think that this is probably more true of women, a lot of women might throw me some shade for saying this, but as guys, I donāt know what the major difference is. Maybe itās testosterone levels, whatever. Maybe itās just in our DNA, but we do not grow up feeling fear.
[00:12:41] We just, we donāt generally feel afraid of a whole lot of things. Like, most guys would never even think, like, am I safe if I go walk out on the street? Unless theyāre in a really shitty area, you know? But if I go out for a walk, Iām not concerned about my safety at all. I could roll down my windows and take a nap in my car, parked by the side of the road, and wouldnāt even worry.
[00:13:03] Women, I didnāt realize this until later years, but women from.
[00:13:08] Sarah: Even going like for a walk by myself, no way, Iām taking my pitbull, like
[00:13:12] Jason: Yes.
[00:13:13] Sarah: Or Iām carrying.
[00:13:15] Jason: Right. Or some combination.
[00:13:18] Sarah: Something. Thereās no, thereās no chance. Yeah,
[00:13:21] Jason: I mean even if Iām out of town, for example Youād like you get a little bit more concerned about things and your safety and stuff like that, right?
[00:13:30] Sarah: See, Iām the type of person Iām like, I want like a fortress. I want like reinforced concrete like five inch, you know, like, maybe even 11 inch thick, like, walls, I want, like, a moat, I also like some sharks that we donāt feed, like, ever, and then, you know, somebody might accidentally fall down.
[00:13:49] Iāve been getting in, like, this is how Iām like, that would make me feel safe. I want like bulletproof glass. Give me the Cybertruck glass just everywhere. Like, thatās like, this is what I need. I need like laser beams, like you see in museums. Like motion sensor laser beams that trigger like the SWAT team.
[00:14:06] Thatās what I need, but Iāve watched way too many horror movies, admittedly, way too many for my own good.
[00:14:13] Jason: So regardless of your gender, masculine and feminine energy is always at play. And, Feminine energy generally is not going to feel safe without masculine energy nearby.
[00:14:24] Thatās just generally how it works. Masculine energy creates that protection and safety. This will be true of your clients. So youāll need to show up somewhat in a masculine frame so that your clients can feel safe. feel safe with you. And thatās what they want to buy. They donāt want to buy property management, but they want to buy a safety and certainty.
[00:14:40] They want to buy peace of mind. And so that certainty that you can display is more of a masculine energy or masculine frame. This is true of women that are in relationships. If theyāre not getting that from the man that theyāre with or around them, That sort of masculine frame, theyāre going to become, a lot of times, they become more nervous, more neurotic.
[00:14:59] Theyāre more concerned about things and more fearful. And especially if they have to then step into the masculine frame to take care of the guy that theyāre with because heās even more needy and pleasy and whatever and feminine than she is, then itās like, it creates this gross sort of Iām your mother type of dynamic, right?
[00:15:17] And you donāt want to be my mother, right? You donāt want to be cleaning up after me and telling me what to do all the time.
[00:15:22] Sarah: I donāt want to be anybodyās mom.
[00:15:24] Jason: Yeah, exactly.
[00:15:24] Sarah: I am not cut out to be a mom, letās be honest. Iām just not, Iām just not good. Like my mom is the best mom in the world and then like, how do I measure up to that?
[00:15:34] Like I canāt compete with that.
[00:15:35] Jason: Well, I donāt think itās a competition.
[00:15:37] Sarah: Everything is a competition.
[00:15:39] Jason: Itās not really.
[00:15:39] Sarah: You know nothing about me.
[00:15:41] Jason: Itās not really competition. You donāt need to compete with your mom, but you can take, you know, some of the good that youāve got from her and the stuff that you donāt want to apply or we learn from our parents.
[00:15:51] We donāt want to be like. We donāt have to take that. Right. So, you know, I guess the takeaway from this episode maybe is men, check out that book, like step into a little bit more masculine role in your relationships, your wife will be calmer, sheāll be more loving, you will definitely get more respect and youāll get more sex if youāre showing up in a masculine frame. And itās your responsibility. Stop trying to change her. Stop trying to get her to be something different. Stop wishing she was nicer to you. Stop trying to focus on I need love and I need to please her and do things like that like Show up in a confident leadership position, like plan stuff, plan dates.
[00:16:35] Weāre going on a date this weekend, right? We went on a date last weekend.
[00:16:40] Sarah: Round two.
[00:16:40] Jason: I messed up last weekend. I planned a date. I was so excited and took her out to eat. We went to go to where the date was, we were supposed to go watch a show. And it was closed, like, there was nothing there. And I was like, what?
[00:16:54] And I checked and I had the date wrong. I had the date wrong. So what did I do as a leader? I found another date. So I quickly booked tickets, found tickets to a comedy show that was right there, downtown Austin. And then we went to that and we had a good time, right?
[00:17:08] Sarah: Well, that was when I rescued the bird.
[00:17:09] Jason: Yes.
[00:17:10] Sarah: So here, letās talk about this. This is how crazy my life is. Jump out of a moving car because my husband wouldnāt stop the car.
[00:17:16] Jason: Letās, let me explain this. Iām driving into a parking lot, there is a bird that has landed on my hood and itās just staying on there so Iām like, this is weird and Iām turning into a parking structure and I was barely moving.
[00:17:30] I was slowed down or you would have hurt yourself but Iām like, sheās like, Iām going to get out and Iām going to take care of the bird and because it had jumped off. And I was like, No.
[00:17:37] Sarah: It didnāt. It tried to fly, like, it was on the hood. And it tried to fly a little bit and it, like, barely cleared, like, the roof of the car and I went, Jason, that bird is injured, Iām telling you, itās injured and heās like, okay.
[00:17:51] And Iām like, stop the car, and heās like, what? Iām like, no, stop the car. I was like, I am not stopping the car. Yeah, heās like, Iām not stopping.
[00:17:57] Jason: There were, like, homeless people on the street, like, right outside there. Yeah, I know. Ghettos, they probably were all high on drugs, like, it was not a great area.
[00:18:06] And she jumps out of the car and I have to then find a parking space because thereās nowhere to park and I had to go up seven floors in this parking structure. Iām like, my wife is probably going to be dead by now, right? So I eventually get to the top floor, then I come down, Iām, like, so anxious because Iām, like, I need to protect this woman from her crazy bird saving, like, whatever.
[00:18:27] Sarah: And actually, I had this dress on. And my high heels, and Iām running around trying to, like, scoop up. Iām like, itās okay, try to scoop the bird. And the bird, like, it canāt really fly. It flew a little bit for, like, a couple feet, and then it, like, sank back down. And Iām like, oh no, itās injured. So Iām, like, chasing the bird, and the bird, like, hops around.
[00:18:45] Like, it comes out of the parking garage, and it hops around to the corner. I donāt know whatās back there. So Iām just following, Iām like, come here, bird. And thereās a man in the corner. who I can only think, my guess is, like, coke, I donāt know. I donāt know what heās doing, itās, I donāt know, crack, whatever crack is, itās probably that.
[00:19:03] So, I donāt know, Iām not a drug expert, Iāve never been in narcotics, I donāt know. But heās, like, in the corner and heās, like, doing, I was, like, okay, Iām just going to, like, not look at whatās happening, cause I donāt care, Iām just, Hi, Iām just getting the bird, Iām, like, donāt, like, sorry donāt mind me.
[00:19:19] And yeah, he didnāt like that. But I did get the bird, and then I didnāt know what to do with the bird. So I have the bird now, Iām like, oh, what do I do now? So I was going to walk back to my husband and tell him to get in the car.
[00:19:33] Jason: Yeah, we were seven floors up. You had no idea where I was.
[00:19:36] Sarah: No, I didnāt. I was just going to walk around until I found you.
[00:19:39] But I had the bird in my hands. And I was going to go back to my husband and then say, like, I guess we have to figure out what to do with this bird. We have a bird now. But this woman, she was on the street and sheās like, Oh, hi. She was like, excuse me, do you need help? And I said, I donāt know.
[00:19:54] Can, do you know what to do with an injured bird? And she said, actually, yes I do. And I said, Oh my God, thank God. Because I didnāt know what I was going to do with this bird. And she said, Oh, you have to take it to whatever on earth she said. And sheās like, I can do that because I guess she works there or something.
[00:20:11] So sheās like, oh, Iāll take it in tomorrow. Sheās like if you give me the bird So then she had this whole bird probably ate
[00:20:18] Jason: the bird. Sheās probably some homeless person that ate the bird.
[00:20:21] Sarah: He was not a homeless person. It was a couple.
[00:20:23] Jason: Okay.
[00:20:24] Sarah: There was a couple they had a dog.
[00:20:26] Jason: Okay, meanwhile, Iām coming down an elevator.
[00:20:30] It lets me out on the first floor of this parking structure, does not let me into the parking structure. Thereās no, like, it just exits the building. So I exit the parking building and it locks me out of the building. So I canāt even go back in and Iām like trying to find her. I have no idea where she is.
[00:20:49] And so Iām calling her and yeah
[00:20:53] we ended up talking, didnāt we?
[00:20:54] Sarah: No, I called you.
[00:20:55] Jason: Yeah, you called me.
[00:20:56] Sarah: Then so the lady takes the bird and now I have no bird, which is great and the bird is safe. And now Iām thinking, okay, let me just, I didnāt realize it was as tall. I really did not know that the building was that tall.
[00:21:08] So I figured, Oh, thereās probably like three levels, whatever. Iāll just walk around and find the car. It wonāt be hard. Well, Iām walking around and Iām realizing, Oh, okay. Well, this just keeps going. Yeah. And you
[00:21:18] Jason: were wearing the worst shoes on the planet.
[00:21:19] Sarah: Worst shoes. I was wearing a
[00:21:21] Jason: Okay. Let me explain this.
[00:21:23] They canāt see your outfit right now. Sarah looks like sex on wheels. Like, her outfit is hot. Like, this is a hot dress. This is like a form fitting store dress. I bought this for her. She looks really good in this. Sorry. And sheās wearing these high heels.
[00:21:39] Sheās wearing these high heels like Louboutin, whatever theyāre called. And theyāre like, did I buy you those?
[00:21:46] Sarah: That pair? Yes.
[00:21:48] Jason: Okay. Yeah, I bought her these shoes and theyāre wicked uncomfortable.
[00:21:51] Sarah: Theyāre so uncomfortable.
[00:21:52] Jason: Like whenever she wears them on a date.
[00:21:53] Sarah: Christian Louboutin, I have to say something about him.
[00:21:55] He either hates women or he has no idea what womenās feet are like.
[00:21:59] Jason: I donāt know, but heās laughing. Or both. Heās laughing all the way to the bank, whatever. Because theyāre not cheap. So, sheās wearing these shoes that she canāt even walk around in. And youāre going to, thereās no way sheās going to go up seven floors of parking.
[00:22:12] Sarah: I was on the third floor.
[00:22:14] Jason: Yeah.
[00:22:15] Sarah: Yeah, I got to the third floor and then I realized, oh, okay, so then I called you.
[00:22:19] Jason: Yeah, and then she eventually finds me. We get. You need to go back up to the car because I didnāt grab your purse. Because
[00:22:26] Sarah: he left my purse in the car.
[00:22:28] Jason: Because I should have been psychic and known that she needed me to grab her purse.
[00:22:32] Right guys. And so we go back up, but he had to let me back into the building because I was locked out and their thing wouldnāt work to let me back in with my parking pass thing. So she comes down to the first floor, opens it up, lets me in. We begin in the elevator, we go back up the top floor.
[00:22:47] Iām like, what were you thinking? And sheās like, what were you thinking? You didnāt grab my purse. You left my purse. Iām like, youāre way more important than the purse, woman. And youāre like going around crazy homeless people and like trying to save a bird.
[00:23:03] Sarah: It was saved.
[00:23:04] Jason: So
[00:23:05] Sarah: It was saved.
[00:23:06] Jason: Okay, good job. You did it.
[00:23:08] Good job. Youāre like
[00:23:09] Sarah: Weāve been saving lots of animals.
[00:23:11] Jason: I think thereās a Bible verse where Jesus says something or God says something about like your life is worth more than many sparrows or something like that. Yeah. So I donāt know. Some of you donāt know what the verse is.
[00:23:24] Sarah: I mustāve missed class that day.
[00:23:26] Jason: Yeah, exactly. So anyway, we go up to the car, get this, come back down, we exit that same exit down on the first floor and Iām looking around, Iām like, this is not a great area. No, it was not.
[00:23:37] Sarah: It was bad.
[00:23:37] Jason: Thereās some rough characters and like, theyāre walking around and like,
[00:23:41] Sarah: bleh. In fact, we went to the comedy club and one of the comedians, he said, so now I have a bully and heās a homeless man and the same homeless man, he like, hangs out right outside the comedy club and he said, Iām here all the time.
[00:23:52] And now the homeless man is like harassing me every single time. And heās like, so now I have a bully whoās a homeless man. Heās like, what do I do about that?
[00:24:01] Jason: Yeah, this is great. This is great. So
[00:24:05] Sarah: yeah.
[00:24:06] Jason: Yeah. So I may be able to keep Sarah safe from her bird rescuing adventures in the future. Weāll see.
[00:24:13] Sarah: Stop the car.
[00:24:15] When I tell you to stop, just stop the car.
[00:24:16] Jason: You still would have gotten out. I didnāt want you to get out. We could have come back.
[00:24:20] Sarah: Oh, no. It could have died in the meantime. What if it went in the street? It tried to go in the street. I had to stop it.
[00:24:27] Jason: All right. I would rather a little bird die than my wife.
[00:24:31] Sarah: So thatās okay. Yeah. But I donāt feel like I feel like thereās a third option.
[00:24:36] Jason: Men, you know what Iām thinking right now? You know.
[00:24:40] Sarah: Theyāre like, what is wrong with her?
[00:24:42] Jason: They donāt think whatās wrong with it. They just go, thatās what women do. Like, and yeah, and guys understand. So.
[00:24:49] Sarah: We have to save things.
[00:24:51] Jason: Okay, so, should we wrap this up? Anything else we should have? I didnāt know we were going into this whole date, but I have a date planned for this weekend. Itās the one that I thought had been the previous weekend. So weāre, Iām taking her out again, but men plan some dates, show some leadership. Donāt wait till she asks you to do things.
[00:25:10] Try and Be proactive and find ways to do things before she asks you right. And if sheās asked you to do things multiple times, you probably are being a lazy bum. Comfort ease and thatās feminine, right? Everybody loves to see a woman in comfort in with her pillows and cushions laying out attractively but guys. They love to see guys at work, like they, man, you do the work.
[00:25:34] If you are just sitting around watching football games all day and being a bum, then you are actually in your feminine as a guy and men are men of action. Get some stuff done, do some things, be proactive, improve yourself. So thatās all Iāll say about that. All right. So yeah. And join our program and get, join our program.
[00:25:56] Get a coach like me. Thatās going to call you out on your BS and help you step into a mass more masculine frame. We will crush it more in business. And I guarantee that you will be getting more respect, more love, more sex, more, all the good stuff. If you show up and if you like show up and be the person you were meant to be.
[00:26:16] So, we, I will challenge you to do that. Iāve worked with relationship coaches. Iāve got a coach for a marriage coach right now. Iāve got weāve had business coaches like you need to be constantly improving yourself. So, I will make sure that youāre doing that if you join our program. All right.
[00:26:33] Thatās it for today, right? All right. Until next time, everybody to our mutual growth. If you would like to be part of the adventure with door, grow, Go to doorgrow. com. Check us out. Book a call with us. Weāll find out if we can help you. And if you are wanting to be a little bit more connected to our free community, you can go to doorgrowclub. com and join our free Facebook group. And thatās it. Bye everyone.
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